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Suze's avatar

Of course! Now I see it, I can’t unsee it. The classic “look over there” tactic, so we take our eyes off what the real predators are doing. In so many conversations about trans women there are comments like “why would a man dress as a woman to get access to ladies bathrooms? Many of them have male cleaners and men who want to take *ahem* advantage of women will do it anyway”. Thank you my weirdo friend x

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your weirdo friend's avatar

this man is good at gaslighting, but you’re right: once you see it, you can’t unsee it.

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your weirdo friend's avatar

♥️♥️♥️

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Morpho's avatar

Good point. I hadn’t made the connection, but it makes all kinds of sense. Sadly - the creep (of fascism) is here and we need to create an effective global rebuke by organizing into a grand rainbow coalition across the borders. “Imagine there’s no countries..” Prophet Lennon

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Ash's avatar

Psychological projection is the name of the game and obfuscation is the tool. Patriarchy has long functioned like this - morphing and employing violence (manipulative rhetoric or otherwise) every time attempts to expose its arbitrary logic materialize - and it’s the work of anyone who cares about others to call these tactics out for what they are: anti-social and not in keeping with healthy and stable human communities. Our side would be well served to continue to focus on demanding responsibility, transparency and accountability from those in power and esp. from those inclined to abuse their power✌️

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your weirdo friend's avatar

yes, neighbor! 🌈♥️

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